Men will be Men!!!!!!!!

I know most men are not going to take my blog too kindly. But, show me a woman who doesn't like talking about men, and I will find you a cow with wings! Right from those dirty SMS`s, little gossip in the washroom or those private detailed descriptions that we women love to indulge in, there’s just not getting enough of men.

Okay, so off late I have been privy to those messages which give use humour to describe the type of creatures men are. I’m not saying that women are perfect, but you know gossip and bitching have no bounds!  And while we are on the subject of gossiping, let’s get one fact straight - MEN GOSSIP TOO. And here’s the real eye opener, they gossip about other men too! So should we be made to feel guilty or bad about gossiping, hell I think not!! 

I am going to take it one step further and say, I am proud of it.

Let ‘s get down the first skill that women are admired and condemned the most for - Organizing things.  Everything from the way we maintain our kitchen’s to our closets and cupboards, everything is given a place. Now leave a man alone for 10 minutes,  or in charge of the house for a little while and he is sure to rearrange everything based on convenience and comfort. The comfort btw, is for him, and not for us.

I know all you mothers, wives, sisters, daughters or even girl friends, out there are nodding in agreement.

You wake them up, you cook for them, clean their mess, remind them a thousand times to do something, beg them to go for a haircut. It could be anything, it is really up to us women to take the lead.

Okay, so here are a few more reasons why I men are often referred to as creatures -

●      You plan a vacation for a week, they can survive in just a pair of jeans.

●      Same hairstyle lasts for years or even a decade.

●      Those jeans would have gone to wash a century ago.

●      Bedsheets will never be changed until you notice

●      Doesn’t really matter if there was a hurricane at your home that cricket match is still interesting.

●      They don’t go crazy when they see another man wearing the same shirt in a party. Rather, they feel great and become buddies.

●      Shopping takes minutes. They don’t mind if it’s really worth buying or not.

●      They may cook great but your kitchen is screwed.

●      They can never notice your new dress even though it was gifted by them just few days back.

●       They still look at other girls secretly but not in front of you of course.

●      Most men are programmed in a certain way to check out women

●      You give them a gadget and tell them its not working, their heart and soul goes into repairing it irrespective of they know how to do it or they don’t know.

Now comes the most important question - Can we do without them?

No of course not!

Be it as fathers, husbands, brothers, sons and of course boyfriends you can shout at them, you can go mad with them, you can get irritated beyond reason, but can you do without them, no way is my answer. 

The can do everything wrong, yet they can still make you feel safe just by holding your hand. They can shout at you, fight with you or drive you crazy sometimes. They can still make you happy with just a little hug. They may not be as perfect as we women are, still they know how to win a woman`s heart. I guess they are made that way.

One thing I must say, irrespective of their nationality, class, religion men anywhere in the world are all the same. Hate em’ or love em’ but you can’t stop talking about em’!!!